Sunday, October 13, 2019

Bragging on Grandchildren

Gavin's awards

So, do we get a pass when we brag on our grandchildren? Everybody does it.  It's a given that our grandchildren are the best and brightest.  I've been pondering quite awhile now the many wonderful  traits my grandson, Gavin, possesses.  And it's high time I write down some of the stories that compile our wonderful relationship.  Sadly, I've forgotten more than I will ever remember.  All the more reason to start sharing some of these anecdotes.  Some day, Gavin might enjoy reading these remembrances about who he was as a child.  And specifically, who he is to this Grandmother.

In no specific order, just here and there, stories. About Gavin.  And how he changes my world by being a part of it.

Last spring, at the end of Gavin's 4th grade year, the school held an awards ceremony.  Unable to attend the event, Gavin played Master of Ceremonies and treated me to a one-on-one display of his many school-year achievements.  It made me so proud and happy for this young man who is able to walk in the world and be so positive.  His love for learning is infectious and his open manner and cheerful disposition can always put a smile on my face.  Such a gift to all of us who love him.

Gavin's Artwork
Self Portrait, Gavin Lee Warren, 10 yrs. old

Saturday, October 12, 2019

Sexagenarian


Funny how the advent of a birthday brings on extra thinking, above and beyond the norm. A little like taking a pulse.  How am I?  How do I feel about this? Where am I going? What have I accomplished? What would I like to do with my remaining time here on planet Earth? Some of this sounds like big idea stuff when spoken out loud or written here on the white page. But now that it's escaped the just thinking phase, best see if I can find some worthy answers and set some goals for the remainder of my sexagenarian decade.

The thought of this next birthday makes me a little giddy, without the threat of a hangover. Not a landmark one but special nevertheless. I've arrived!  But where is that exactly? It's definitely nowhere I could have ever predicted back when I began my adult journey.

Married for 31 years to my knight in shining armor...two children grown up and living full-on adventures of their very own...being around to watch my 10-year-old grandson thrive and achieve...most of my friends and family living far and wide...still eager to self-educate, seek new challenges,  forge new connections, and most recently, looking for new creative outlets.  Never did I think I would be able to sum up my most precious parts with such brevity.

Grateful for this opportunity to think and ponder my existence, I am excited about turning 63 and celebrating each day ahead as it unfolds.  Happy Birthday to me.